Attraction

What attracts a man to a woman and vise versa?

So my youtube friend did a video awhile back about Attraction. I told her i'd do a response video but never got around to it.

She used Garcelle Beauvais as an example. What attracted her to her husband? He is a tall, very mildly attractive white man. People were speculating that she was mainly attracted to him because he was white and rich, period.

I can't speak as to why she chose him but..I can speak for myself and SOME women when I say looks aren't everything and race isn't anything. I am attracted to the most wackiest and handsome men. There are certain characteristics in which I hold most appealing than most, for instance legs! I am such a leg girl. If men have great legs that is the biggest turn-on. Wooo..when I seen my boyfriend's legs for the first time I was drooling. Derek Jeter is attractive to me just because of his wonderful legs.

Other things such as facial features and personality plays a big part in attraction. The ugliest man turn into a grade 7 if he has a humorous, caring personality. I have met men whom I immediately shunned away because I didn't find them immediately attractive, after experiencing being in their presence my perception often changes. Same for attractive men, if you have no personality it can take you from a 10 to a 1.

Most women find certain men universally appealing such as Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp. The group of men I'm attracted to includes these men and much more, some may even find my men surprising. Some of them include:

I've loved Hayden ever since the show Higher Ground, which he filmed when he was 19 years old. To see him increase in star power has been very exciting. He's so gorgeous to me, he also has the most attractive smile ever!!




Usher!! During the Superbowl Half time my friends had to fan me because I was going crazy!! this man is so handsome! So athletic! His smile and dimple is to die for.

 Rain!! Besides being completely gorgeous he also so talented! Being an Asian pop star he probably gets his share of groupies so I'm sure he would never look twice at me. His lips are very sexy and his body is ...uuaahhh...enough said.

 

Shia Lebeouf!! OMG!! He has to be the sexist guy. He's small yes I know but his personality (bad boy), his attitude, his talent cannot be replicated. He has reached international success with Transformers and from then on. well after Disturbia I was hooked on him. 

 

 Sung Kang!! Ninja Assassin and Fast and the Furious featured Sung and boy did I notice. I even told my boyfriend that Sung was the only thing I paid attention to in the movie. I couldn't get my eyes off of him. His hair, his jawline and his lay-back personality makes him the attractive guy next door. I wanna live in his neighborhood!!

Weddings!!

       This past weekend I was a bridesmaid at my cousin's wedding. Wow, it was gorgeous. Words can't describe the feeling and emotion she and her new husband gave the crowd, grown men were crying tears of joy. I must have cried 5 times myself. She has been with her husband now for 8 years, they met in college and never have left one another's side since! It was at a beautiful hotel overlooking the pond through the huge mirrors behind the procession. However there was a monsoon outside. The makeup artist told us that it's a good thing when it rains on a wedding day, it means that the marriage will last very long. Everyone that knows Mike and Kenysha personally will tell you there's no doubt in our minds it will last forever. Not only have they been going strong for 8 years but they're extremely mature, their one another's co-pilot and best friends.

      Last year around this time I was upset over the stupid drama. Kenysha and Mike both called me and talked to me for hours about the situation. They gave me such great advice and it also was Kenysha who found a video of me on youtube. She called me right away and told me some psychopath did a video about me. Now, it seems so long ago but it was times like that I could count on them two to be there.
The only down part of the wedding was when people started asking for Josh :( Everyone it seems watches my youtube videos and wanted to meet him, even long lost cousins and aunts. I told them where he was and they all said "Well hang in there." "Don't worry, he'll be back before you know it.."
When it comes time for my wedding, I hope it will be even half as beautiful. I wish them the very best and I know like everyone else at the wedding that they're love will last forever. Congratulations!! Here's one of the videos I took after the ceremony was over and the reception was SUPPOSE to be over as well but of course it's my family and no one was leaving until they were ready to.