Fake People

They're everywhere! Fake people. Fake people, as defined by me, are individuals whom assume other personalities, other personas to please or conform to what others would want you to be. I've had these people run rampant through my entire life and they were 100%, all the time, women!
Not to say men can't be fake, however most of the time its women. Women whom are conformists, who want to be loved bc there was probably a lack of that in their life or women who have been fake so long, they have no idea they are fake.

How to spot a Fake Person:

If he/she agrees with everything u say, likes everything u like, has been to every single place you have, loves everything you do( same music, same extracurricular activities) and has done most everything you have then that person is fake..
       It is a cut off point to where you think alright, either this person is fake or its a hell of alot of coincidences between us. I had a girl who wanted to be my friend so badly she lied constantly just to fit in with me. Don't be afraid to be urself or to be different. If a person doesn't like you for who u are then no need to associate with him/her.

If he/she acts one way with you in the beginning and she/he is slowly starting to show you her/his true colors.
    I saw this alot especially in new relationships. Its rosey in the beginning andthen boom..no more flowers, more disagreements, no politeness, etc. With new relationships, each person is trying to please the other so much that when they're done trying to please the other person, its not a happy union anymore. Ive been in two long term relationships and I have been a victim of this. Be who you are all the time. If you let things slide bc you think hey, i'll correct him later or thats annoying but I won't tell him now. When that time comes the other person will think differently of you, thats a fact. Let him know off the bat what u like, what u don't like so when you fall in love your not falling for a fake person, he's loving you for u.
    I also seen this with friends. A friend is so nice to me, we go to the movies all the time, party, drink together and then she gets a phone call from Mom, and is cussing her mother out. Uuhh, the first thing I thought was Eeeww, I don't want to be this person's friend, look how she treats her mother..if she has no respect for her, she def won't have respect for me in a couple years.

Moral of this is don't be anything less or more of who u are. When people decide to be around you, its because they like who you are. If you're acting fake, you can rest assure they will leave your life. Which is why many fake people dont have long lasting relationships, whether its friends or romances.
     

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