Should I?

Yes! We all have different textures but we all need to learn to embrace what God gave us. Too often I see women whom don't and end up demolishing the health of their hair. Thin, brittle and weak whether your white or black is not the way you want your hair. I have Caucasian friends who envy my hair, mainly because of the thickness, length and health. Don't for a second believe that all Caucasian people have healthy hair. It may however be easier to maintain.

If I had my way, I'd have hair like her. Not straight at all. The perfect Kinky curly texture, much like my sister's mame. Most people tell me I should grow out my relaxer but why?! I'm just gonna blow and straighten my hair all the time. Imagine straightening this hair every week...not fun.  To be honest this could probably be my hair if I get off of the chemical crack. Should I? Whenever it comes time to relax I get the idea "hey should I just go natural?" but maybe I will stop relaxing...oneday. I'm afraid that no one in corporate America will take me seriously with hair like this. It's less about what I want and more about what my hair says about my persona. I'm still young, I have a long time to think about it.

As far as men go they care more about your natural beauty than anything else. Now It's been 7 months since my last relaxer. Most relaxed women ask themselves this question at least once or twice a year. I'd just hate to go natural and not like the way my hair looked. Hhmm.. this question always enters my mind around the time I absoutely need a perm....we shall see.